In this episode of Children First Family Law®️, Krista sits down with Liberty, a 21-year-old who grew up navigating her parents’ divorce in a way many families hope for but rarely see. Liberty shares what it felt like to be told about the divorce as a sixth grader, how her parents’ intentional co-parenting kept her out of the middle, and why clear structure and communication mattered more than she realized at the time.
Liberty reflects on growing up in two homes without conflict, watching her parents show up together for milestones, and later welcoming stepparents and stepsiblings into her life. Her story offers a rare, honest look at how divorce can reshape a family without breaking it.
This conversation is a powerful reminder that when adults truly put children first, kids can grow up feeling secure, supported, and hopeful.
In this episode, you will hear:
- Being told about divorce together and why that moment mattered
- Growing up without being put in the middle of parental conflict
- How structure and predictable parenting schedules created stability
- Parents communicating directly instead of through their child
- Navigating new partners and blended families without pressure
- The difference between a “broken” home and a restructured one
- How healthy co-parenting shaped long-term trust and relationships
Resources from this Episode
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All states have different laws; be sure you are checking out your state laws specifically surrounding divorce. Krista is a licensed attorney in Colorado and Wyoming but is not providing through this podcast legal advice. Please be sure to seek independent legal counsel in your area for your specific situation.
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