When parents first decide to separate, one of the biggest challenges is figuring out how to minimize disruption for their children. In this episode of the Children First Family Law podcast, Krista spoke with Christina McGhee, international co-parenting educator and author of “Parenting Apart,” about what happens when separating parents choose to live together temporarily, a setup often called “nesting.”
Nesting allows children to remain in their familiar home while parents take turns living there. It offers consistency and comfort during a confusing time, but as Christina explains, it also requires clear expectations and emotional readiness from both parents. Without those, nesting can quickly become stressful rather than supportive.
She and Krista discuss how families can create structure around nesting, establish clear household rules, maintain privacy, and communicate regularly about logistics. Christina emphasizes that nesting is not a solution for fixing a marriage. It’s a short-term, child-centered strategy that helps parents transition toward independent households with less upheaval.
For some families, nesting serves as a bridge to the next stage of co-parenting. For others, it’s a reminder that emotional preparation is just as critical as the physical arrangements. By staying focused on the children’s needs and building trust through cooperation, parents can help their kids feel safe, loved, and secure even in seasons of big change.
If you want to learn more about the Children First Family Law Podcast, check out www.childrenfirstfamilylaw.com/living-together-during-separation-nesting-and-early-transitions-with-coparenting-expert-christina-mcghee.